COMPLIMENTS THAT AREN’T ABOUT PHYSICAL APPEARANCE
1) You’re empowering.
2) I like your voice.
3) You’re strong.
4) I think your ideas/beliefs matter.
5) I’m so happy you exist.
6) More people should be listening to what you have to say.
7) You’re a very warm hearted person.
8) It’s nice seeing such kindness.
9) You’re very down to earth.
10) You have a beautiful soul.
11) You inspire me to become a better person.
12) Our conversations bring me a lot of joy.
13) It’s good to see someone care so much.
14) You’re so understanding.
15) You matter a lot to me.
16) You’re important even if you don’t think so.
17) You’re intelligent.
18) Your passion is contagious.
19) Your confidence is refreshing.
20) You restore my faith in humanity.
21) You’re great at being creative.
22) You’re so talented at ____.
23) I don’t get tired of you the way I get tired of other people.
24) You have great taste in ___.
25) I’m happy I stayed alive long enough to meet you.
26) I wish more people were like you.
27) You’re so good at loving people.
3:29 p.m. feel free to add to this! (via hereislight)
I feel really insecure in myself, it's weird because I'm at this age where half the people are perusing further study and the other half are not. Half are partying and the other are not. I'd rather just study and not party but I feel like there's something wrong with me because of that. This year I discovered a term called agender and I feel wrong for identifying with it. Coming from a different background I can't live up to cultural expectations.
There’s nothing wrong with not wanting to party! If you are feeling extreme social anxiety, I would speak to a therapist. However, it is normal to not want to party. I wasn’t into going out in college until the end of it. Still today I rather go to a show over a party or club. But that’s fine because everyone is different. I can’t give advice on gender identity, so maybe speak to someone professional you can trust. I hope you feel better soon. ♥️